The eight best way to express your self-confidence and attract earn others' attention.
1.Be Central
| Stand in the middle of the room." Women naturally gravitate towards central areas, plus you'll be in the eye line of four times more women," says Dr Perry Buffington author of Cheap Psychological tricks (Buffington Press). |
2.Stand Confidently
| "Place your feet wider apart," says Richard La Ruina, author of The Natural Art of Seduction (Pennant). "This improves your balance to stop you from constantly shifting your weight, which can make you look unsure of yourself." |
3.Move Quickly
| Catch her eye by spilling your drink. The Centre for Nonverbal Studies in Washington found the best way to get noticed is with sudden movements, so a slight fumble and the exaggerated rescuing of your goblet will cause the right scene. |
4.Smile Right
| According to research at cardiff university, a slow, growing smile is seen as more authentic and flirtatious compared to a quick grin - giving the impression you've considered and appraised her before granting your approval. |
5.Entice Her Over
| "Hold your drink by your side", says La Ruina . "In front of your chest looks far too defensive." Stand slightly away too. "Separating yourself from your friends makes you look more approachable," says Buffington.
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6.Make Eye Contact
| Studies by Harvard University found you can increase a women's attraction to you by looking into her eyes 60% of the time. It floods the body with phenyl-ethyl-amine (PEA), the pleasure chemical responsible for love and attraction. |
7.Listen Carefully
| Tilt your head to the right. Scientists at Ruhr University of Bochum in Germany found that this makes you look more caring. Lift one shoulder and cock your head to the side and you'll appear more genuinely interested. |
8.Keep Still
| "Fidgeting makes you look nervous, which is unattractive," says La Ruina. "Keeps your hands by your hands by your sides, and thumbs between index and middle fingers to remove the need for them to be constantly doing something." |
